Anonymous said...
You need to stop playing the victim if thats really how you feel.
saying things like:
"i just wonder what everyone is so damn busy with anymore.... the least they could do is tell me so i'd have something to do too, but no."
and:
"if you want to hang out with me, why don't you call me?"
...ok, now is it just me or does that not make sense. if that's how i really feel, then how am i "playing"? one does not "play" the person who they are, they ARE the person who they are. and when i said "the least they could do is tell me so i'd have something to do too, but no," i think you misunderstand me. i'm not saying that "oh no, poor me, everybody excludes me," i'm saying that i wish i knew what they were doing to occupy their time so that i'd have an idea of what i could be doing to occupy my time. example: "person x" tells me that they're watching "movie y". i say "good idea!" and i go off to watch "movie y" on my tv. get it now? and the "but no" comment was sarcasm, fyi.
nobody wants to hang out with someone who is going to act like they don't even care. its also really crappy to keep saying that "no one reads this blog, so im writing to myself" all the time. You know people read this, and you're not getting sympathy.
btw, you can reply in comments, unless you are trying to broadcast whats going on.
4:35 PM
care about what? nobody's gonna hang out with a person who "acts like they don't even care" about what? you're being to vague; be more specific.
well, you know what? it's do damn bad that you think it's crappy that i say whatever the hell i say. once again, you don't like it, yet you come here and read this blog anyway. i dunno about you, but usually i aviod reading things that i don't like. and i'm not looking for sympathy, i'm humoring myself. for the first two months i started this blog nobody read it, so i'd talk to myself about how i was talking to myself. now people apparently do read this, yet i still mention that i'm talking to myself. it's more of an ongoing joke than anything, really. if you don't find it funny; well, sorry, but i don't give a damn. and if i replied in my comments to you, then there's no guarentee that you'd see my reply. that and i wouldn't get to mock you openly like this.Anonymous said...
*Agrees to the stated comment.*
I love how you like to twist words around just to show that you are right in some little way shape or form. Does it make you feel more secure about yourself? Does it make you feel special knowing that you're right in the most INSIGNIFICANT way?
well, maybe it does! so there! what now, huh?!
Using quotes from the previous comment,
"if you want to hang out with me, why don't you call me?"
What makes you so special so that you don't have to put any effort into hanging out? So you say people are busy, well they are not always busy. Come up with a time to hang out. It's not a sin to plan ahead.
hmm, who am i supposed to be calling again? you failed to answer my question from last time. and as for your first question, that's a double standard right there, my friend (then again, you're not my friend, are you?). what makes YOU so special YOU don't have to put any effort into hanging out? i rest my case.
Anonymous said...
its called pick up the fucking phone and call someone. the theme of your blog seems to be "no one hangs out with me"
but do you ever ask anyone to hang out?
STEP UP or SHUT UP
"i have never said "no one hangs out with me".
You imply it, which is pretty much the same thing. Don't try to twist words around when everyone who reads this thing KNOWS that is what you mean. Anony is right, if you don't start doing things for yourself, nothing will ever get better.
ok, you're just like the first guy. too vague. "nothing will ever get better" ...what was bad in the first place?
what are you saying won't ever get better if i don't start "doing things" for myself? and what are these "things" i'm supposed to be doing? "everyone KNOWS that is what you mean" that's a lil' broad there, dontcha think? how do you "KNOW" that everyone thinks they "KNOW" what you "KNOW"? and what does posting anonymously have to do with "doing things" and "nothing" ever getting "better"? posting anonymously is cowardly. you're afraid of my knowing who you are. why is that, i wonder? you're so bold in your words, why don't you want my to know who you are. if the whole beef is that you want me to call YOU and ask YOU if YOU wanna hang out, then why is it you don't tell me who YOU are? though i seriously doubt that i'd call you and ask you to hang out. i don't hang out with people who hate me.But, since your such the extrovert, go ahead, maintain your course of action. Fail at making friends, fail at keeping grades, fail at every thing else you do. Go on, do it. Be the failure your making yourself out to be. The only person who you're hurting is yourself.
Or you can take the hard way and begin to become more active socially, you don't get better if you don't try.
7:44 PM
where the hell did you get the idea that i was an extrovert?! maintaining my course of action would be an act of INTROVERSION, you moron. and if it's meant to be sarcasm, you suck, because implying that i call myself an extrovert is just something you've obviously made up off the top of your head, because nowhere in this blog, or ever in my life, have i said or thought myself to be an extrovert. quite the opposite. yes yes, you think i'm a failure.
where does it come into play that i "fail at every thing else [i] do"? and how am i making myself out to be a failure? sure i may fail at making new friends, but where did i ever say i actually thought i'd succeed? i'm not a very good people person, if you haven't noticed, and i seem to remember being unable to make any friends in my grade school class. "fail at keeping grades" woah, where did THAT come from. my gpa has absolutely nothing to do with my social skills and is none of your god damned business. you're so desparate for insults, it's sad.
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we wish you'd realize that you are wrong. if you really believe the bullshit you write here, then apparently we AREN'T your friends.
anybody around you sees the same looks on each others faces, people just put up with you. As your "friends" we don't want to see you the way you are, and maybe we pity you, but if you have no problem with the way you are, you obviously dont need any friends, you need a teen magazine to show you what to do when you're bored.
And for the record, you are NOT a victim, no matter how much anyone says to you. What you are is a punta.
"...ok, now is it just me or does that not make sense. if that's how i really feel, then how am i "playing"?"
If it is really that oblivious to you, then you are sadder then the people you call sad. IE. Me, Mr. Anonymous. I mock you since you obviously can't figure out my identity.
"i'm saying that i wish i knew what they were doing to occupy their time so that i'd have an idea of what i could be doing to occupy my time. example: "person x" tells me that they're watching "movie y". i say "good idea!" and i go off to watch "movie y" on my tv. get it now? and the "but no" comment was sarcasm, fyi."
Do you really need to have people give you an idea of what you could be doing with your life? And you call me sad. Instead of pondering what everyone else is doing, you could actually do something worthwhile, like, go outside, take a walk, paint, read a book. And if you get tired of being lonely, call up Jessie, Joe, Chris, Targy, Nick, Eric, whoever.
"care about what? nobody's gonna hang out with a person who "acts like they don't even care" about what? you're being to vague;"
You are quite the oblivious one. The previous statement was
"if you want to hang out with me, why don't you call me?"
Sounds to me like you're too lazy and too stuck up to even attempt to do anything for yourself. And if your meaning that 'you' is supposed to be me, the writer of this comment, then you're missing the point. The point is, you need to take a more active stance instead of waiting for things to come to you. That only works for a little while.
"well, maybe it does! so there! what now, huh?!"
You're only making yourself out to be more pathetic and for that, I pity you. It's obvious you have to feel like you're better than everyone else in order to get by. Which is the saddest mindset ever.
"hmm, who am i supposed to be calling again? you failed to answer my question from last time. and as for your first question, that's a double standard right there, my friend (then again, you're not my friend, are you?). what makes YOU so special YOU don't have to put any effort into hanging out? i rest my case."
As I so kindly stated above, you could always call your 'friends' Joe, Chris, Jessie, Eric or perhaps one of your other band buddies. Why not try to get to know someone else, you might turn out to be better friends!
"what makes YOU so special YOU don't have to put any effort into hanging out?"
I have no problem in calling up people I want to hang out with to do something. They do the same in return. And fyi, I'm not special, I could care less.
"what was bad in the first place? what are you saying won't ever get better if i don't start "doing things" for myself? and what are these "things" i'm supposed to be doing? "everyone KNOWS that is what you mean" that's a lil' broad there, dontcha think? how do you "KNOW" that everyone thinks they "KNOW" what you "KNOW"? and what does posting anonymously have to do with "doing things" and "nothing" ever getting "better"?"
Again, you're obviously not quick in the head to pick up on this, or you failed to read it in the first place and decided to try and make an attack out of it. You're situation with having nothing to do, noone to hang out with, and having an overall boring life is something that can improve. You make it out to be bad, you would rather be with friends, yet as previously stated, you do nothing about it. I know because I have the connections to know. Things you are supposed to be doing you ask? I'm truly amazed you can't figure this out all on you're own. I'm certainly glad you aren't going to be a detective or some kind of forensics person, you royally suck at it. You could be going out with your friends and having a good time or doing some kind of physical activity and have something we people call 'a life.' Instead you mock us for something that you lack.
"posting anonymously is cowardly. you're afraid of my knowing who you are. why is that, i wonder?"
I could really care less, because I know in no way shape or form you could do anything that could bring any sort of harm to me. I just like playing under the role of Mr. Anonymous just for kicks and grins. I'm sorry if you don't find this funny. Wait.. No I'm not.
"if the whole beef is that you want me to call YOU and ask YOU if YOU wanna hang out, then why is it you don't tell me who YOU are? though i seriously doubt that i'd call you and ask you to hang out. i don't hang out with people who hate me."
Don't call me, whatever makes you feel better. But call someone who is actually a friend. I'm just giving you pointers so you can try and change for the better. But you seem to be too stubborn, and people who are stubborn usually have to go through much suffering before they realize what they could be doing to make life better for themselves. I'm writing this because I do infact care, whether you consider me a friend or not.
"But, since your such the extrovert, go ahead, maintain your course of action."
"and if it's meant to be sarcasm, you suck,"
"and if it's meant to be sarcasm, you suck,"
"and if it's meant to be sarcasm, YOU SUCK,"
I'm sorry that it's sarcasm and that I'm right and you're wrong. You call me a moron for your failure to pick up sarcasm, true this is across the net, but honestly, you don't have much room to talk.
How are you making yourself become a failure? You don't try. Simple. Think about it before you rant off with your empty remarks, you might understand.
"i'm not a very good people person"
That can change with a little work. Again, lack of trying.
"fail at keeping grades" woah, where did THAT come from.
You don't try and do the work to maintain your grades, you hardly study, college is going to kill you. How do I know this you may ask? Again, I have my ways.
"you're so desparate for insults, it's sad."
This may be true, which it isn't, but at least I'm not oblivious to the things that stare me right in the face.
And if after this you still don't understand what is trying to be said. Then, you are beyond any sort of help any 'friend' can provide you. You refuse help, you act like your better than everyone else to make up for your own insecurities, you're blind to the obvious facts. And if you do realize them, good for you. Now do something about it.
--PS-- http://www.livejournal.com/users/johnny_kei/
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